B
worth it.
A
Sure. Sure. Sure.
B
There are those times when I think, gee, if I didn't have children I could be out playing bridge or golf.
A
Right. Right. Right. Right. But, you know, it's funny. I did, I had a friend that said, you know, before we always said we don't want children because we can't go off on the spur of the moment or this or that and the other and she got older and she said, but you know, we never do those things anyway. So why, why am I waiting, you know, it's, it's just the way your attitude changes and you mature I suppose. But the thing about the child care I, you know, I have friends that struggle financially and, and they both do have to work. It's a matter not necessarily, uh, that she might want to stay home or he, as well, but, you know, they need the money. And, uh, when I seen some of my friends that have taken that six week old baby, you know, to someone else, it's just, I can imagine how emotional it must be. And, and, you know, multiplied by the fact that you don't really trust the person or you're uncomfortable with the situation MUMBLEx, as far as child care, um, it's just a scary thing.
B
Well, we were lucky when our children were that age, and having lived in a community for a while and we knew the person to whom we were entrusting our children.
A
Huh-uh. That's a big plus.