B
-- whole, I mean they don't get out of the house, they don't socialize but it's my home and I don't want to leave it.
A
Well and it's the first step in, in actually accepting that you are failing and, and aging.
B
Uh.
A
You know once you make that step you know that it's just going to be downhill from then on and, and I've seen people really fight it that desperately needed --
B
Um.
A
-- to make the change. They, they became, in fact, that's probably what's going to happen with my husband's mother. She's going to endanger herself before she'll willingly and probably will never willingly make the decision. And that scares me the, the thought of forcing somebody to do something.