B
-- to where the children are, uh,
A
In fact, uh, I spent the first three years at home with my daughter, so I, I guess I felt fairly fortunate that I was able to do that. And I did notice the difference between those of infants being placed in daycare and I thought to myself, how can a mother place her child at the age of six weeks or four weeks or two weeks or three weeks, whatever the employer says you have to be back at work is basically when you have to be back at work, whether it be six weeks or three or four. But how these women must feel to place their children into care and, you know, it's our society saying yes, this, uh, you need this job. It's a little bit financial type thing because, uh, if you look all over in the other countries, like Europe and that, uh, their standards of living are a lot less than what ours are and --
B
Right.
A
-- that's part of it too. But, uh, like my husband was saying, maybe some of the problems we brought on to ourselves is that these women back in the nineteen fifties, uh, were staying at home with their kids and then made the decision, well, jeez, you know, I'll go out and get a part-time job. Got a part-time job and then financially, they got themselves into well, I'll have the boat, I'll have the car and --
B
Right.
A
-- it's nice and really women, past generation women have done it to women of this day and age too, uh, because it is now, our financial situations are as, it almost takes two people to bring in an income to support a family now and,