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Uh-huh.
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And, uh, fortunately, we agreed, you know, on exactly, you know, what we thought should be done. My mother also was very very independent. She had her own, still had her own little house and still driving her own car,
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Yeah.
B
at age eighty-three. We were lucky in, that in one respect in that after she had her stroke she wasn't really, you know, really much aware of what was going on.
A
Uh-huh.
B
That nursing home life would not have been, you know, anything of her choosing, of course, she would, she would not have been happy there at all.