A
Yeah, you have to --
B
Yeah.
A
-- I mean, you honestly do. Now I have friends that I love to death, but, and they have children, but their children does anything, we have to take them, and, you know --
B
Yeah.
A
-- to do it. And that really gets kind of aggravating after a while because you're saying, Well, I work full time too, you know.
B
Yeah, yeah, but, uh, it's just, it's just something that, you know, my theory is, you know, when, when you have kids and all you, you want to do, well, what I'll do is, you know, like, I mean, you might have problems, but it's not your kids ' problems --