A
Yeah, yeah.
B
But, I, I do know that in raising my boys, I really did meet a lot of pressures saying, you know, you need to get them into music lessons, you need to get them,
A
Uh-huh, uh-huh.
B
into sports you need to get them into this, they need to be busy and they need to be active. And I fought all of those things, I said if those boys want to be involved in that they will come to me and they will say Mom this is important to me, I want to do it,
A
Right, right.
B
otherwise, I will guard their ability to have quiet time.