A
-- to, to family members. My husband's mother will have major surgery and we'll find out about it in a casual conversation.
A
She'll let something slip and we'll say, wait a minute. And, and that's it, she, just, well I didn't want to bother you. She can't accept that we want to be the care givers.
B
Well, when she got home, who took care of her?
A
Yeah. Well, she stayed, she stayed in a temporary nursing home.
B
Oh.
A
Until she was okay. You know, it's just, but it's frightening to us because we live pretty far from her. She's down in Temple --