B
I know they're really proud of independence.
A
-- on somebody. They, they fear being a burden --
B
Uh.
A
-- to, to family members. My husband's mother will have major surgery and we'll find out about it in a casual conversation.
A
She'll let something slip and we'll say, wait a minute. And, and that's it, she, just, well I didn't want to bother you. She can't accept that we want to be the care givers.
B
Well, when she got home, who took care of her?