B
And as, as time grew, I mean when time went on the family grew and moved away and so forth. And now when they come together it's, it's generally, you know, like say the kids of those people who are not, you know, anywhere near one another and I do not think they feel the, the closeness that they used to be there.
A
Uh-huh.
B
Which is a shame but that's just how it is. My mother was complaining last year about th-, you know, it's dwindling down every year, you know, that's just, I think --
A
Is that just family's lack of priority, anymore, maybe yes,
B
-- that's just,
A
we get so involved in our work lives and just,