B
compared to where you are out of school and everything.
A
Right.
B
It's just, it, but what you find is you don't compare the woman, because you just get into trouble. It's all independent and choices.
A
Uh-huh, yeah, very true.
B
Um, but what I was going to say about mothers is, uh, your mother probably just won't say it, but, I mean, my mother and her sisters are always saying, uh, to my cousins and I, my female cousins,
A
Uh-huh.