B
Yeah, you talk, yeah,
A
-- or just to think about doing it rather than having someone --
B
Yeah.
A
-- tell him to do it. I know that was a big thing in our house for a --
B
Uh-huh.
A
-- long time was that if I wanted my husband to do something to help, and even though we were both working the same number of hours, and, and doing things, I had to come in there specifically and say --