B
Right, right.
A
In terms of what to do. Uh, and I just don't think there is a day, a good daycare system. Uh, my company, I'm particularly fortunate that they have, they're in tune with that. But I've been at companies where, uh, you know, the, deci-, the, the trend is, or the definite mood is, well we made conscious decisions not to have children. You know. And in, and a couple like us building through adoption, there, it's almost radical to some people. And what you just learn to do is tune everybody else out and, uh, I respect, there are some women that I know that are divorced or on their own or in single parenting and men that they, you know, they may have the need for child care like that.
B
Uh-huh.
A
But I agree with you, that it's just, I call it dumping.
B
Yeah.
A
I, I ...