A
-- tell him to do it. I know that was a big thing in our house for a --
B
Uh-huh.
A
-- long time was that if I wanted my husband to do something to help, and even though we were both working the same number of hours, and, and doing things, I had to come in there specifically and say --
B
Yeah.
A
-- this needs to be done, this is what you do it now.
B
And a man might say out loud, well, you know, I understand this and I agree, but still he was raised with a mom taking care of him --