A
And you just have to set the time and say, okay this is going to be it.
B
Well, that's true and, and we do a lot of that on the weekends, you know. We try to spend Saturdays together.
A
Right.
B
If my husband golfs, you know, he'll do it during nap time, things like that where they're not really missing the presence, you know.
A
Right.
B
And, and we do a lot of family things together. We're, we're kind of going the other direction this weekend. We're planning a trip, just he and I. This is the first time we've gone anywhere without the kids --